This is the 'first order' of mentalizing, in what could be seen as a hierachy, each higher order relying on the presence of lower orders before it can be sustained:
- Implicit mentalization
- Explicit mentalization
- Affective mentalization
By implicit mentalization we mean intuitive and unreflective interactions between people, which nevertheless imply (for their efficient and effective pursuit) considering the mental state of the other, or that of the self in relation to the other.
In one sense all social interaction 'exercises' implicit mentalization.
In
pathological social environments, modes of interactions may be dramatically limited or distorted precisely in order to avoid the implicit mentalizing activity that such interactions might imply. (In some - particularly abusive - situations, the last thing a child may want to know about is the mental intentions and beliefs of the person who is behaving cruelly towards them, especially if that person is a family member whom they love, or are dependent upon.)
Therapeutically, mentalizing may be enhanced by changing modes of interaction between members of a family, or in the therapeutic space between therapist and client.
Most obviously, implicit mentalization is fostered
by creating a safer, more secure family environment. This is one where members of the family feel confident in exploring each others' thoughts and feelings, and cease to impose stereotyped prototypical ideas on others in creating mental models of their states of mind.
"You ALWAYS think..."
"You NEVER want to..."
From a therapist's point of view then, if we are to sustain and promote implicit mentalization, we need to work towards making and maintaining a calm, safe space, and dealing with any
Affect storms quickly and effectively.